I Believe Something Is Wrong with the BYU Honor Code

I Believe Something Is Wrong with the BYU Honor Code

Yeah, I said it. I believe there’s something wrong with the Honor Code at BYU.

Not necessarily with the specific standards of right and wrong, but rather in the motivation behind these standards.

The simple act of creating a list of actions and consequences is pointless if it doesn’t serve a greater purpose.

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I Guess This Is Who I Am Right Now

I Guess This Is Who I Am Right Now

I’ve had a hard time lately with where I am in my life. This isn’t a repeat of my last post, I promise. It’s just the truth, and it needed to be said again.

And it’s not that everything is going wrong…there are actually a lot of things going right. But often I find myself getting caught up in a sense of “what am I doing?”

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How to Avoid a Codependent Relationship

How to Avoid a Codependent Relationship

In one of my earlier posts, How Not Being “Manly” Made Me Hate Myself, I mentioned that I sometimes have conversations with myself (in my head, mind you) about questions I have. It’s a way for me to have a personal counseling session and to talk through issues that I don’t understand.

Yesterday I was talking to myself about how I didn’t want my relationship to become codependent. I didn’t want our happiness to depend on each other. I didn’t want her bad days to bring me down, and I didn’t want my bad days to bring her down.

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